I so can’t recall the last time I went for a date with a guy and didn’t ask me my body count.
I couldn’t tell if that applied to even the people I’ve simply made out with or just had penetrative sex. One thing I know is, body counts isn’t biographical, it shouldn’t be a question that comes up on a date after asking about her first job or even talking about past relationships juicy stuff, it gets intense.
Then again as a lady if you don’t answer to a guy asking about your body count. This is the supposition;
“I guess your number is high if you don’t want to answer”
No sir, we are just cautious and in our heads we working out half the bill because why on earth would you pop that question out!
You don’t have to trap a girl with that, I mean there is no good that comes out of it. Low number means inexperienced or unsophisticated, high number of sex partners means too high and considers her easy.
Cut it!
We live in a society where a woman’s body count will outweigh any quality about her, and that is mostly the only thing habitually distinguished about her.
This idea has become so contemptible, that women have snubbed sex with men to keep her count near to the ground or will be economical with the truth about the calculation to not look easy or leisurely because men feel there is need to get wind of her body count, the merely detail women are quick to hide.
More to the point, there's no guarantee that the figure she'll tell you is the precise thing, and might soften the numbers just so you don’t run acting outlandish about it. If she granting banks on you with the truth, you may not be able to handle so dig your heels in, bro!
This all stalks from a social order, women are grounded in that sleeping with one too many men is somewhat loose, and that choosing not to be as sexually active or choosing abstinence will make you a prude or a stick in the mud kind of person. Women having sex without a relationship simply because they relish having sex gives the impression of them routinely being a hoe. Yet, men are able to sleep with as many women as they cherry pick without concern of remarks, references or more so rejection. I've never met a man who was taught to live by the "keep them all on one hand" regulation, nor any who has felt humbled about the number of females they've had sex with. But for years, women have been forced into groupings centered on this, and this should be the last straw.
The count of people you have had sex with IS NO ONE'S BUSINESS. PERIOD! Men are missing the mark of a woman with ethics by the concerns of just her past sexual contacts.
The hint of too high discourages a Man from engaging with a lady and this actually, articulates more about the man than her. Besides, women have the ability to be sexually at liberty as men irrespective of how the society be of opinion about it. But true circumstance is men can’t get to grips with a woman who is carefree as he is. We have implicated too many outlooks into our subjective business, where it be duty bound to one;
What a woman does with her body and who she does it with is locked, stocked and barrel up to her, it is only her estimation that carries the weight.
If you think she is amusing to be with why do you have to pry about body counts just to change her positive vibe to something else in your head? So it does not only satisfy your curiosity as a man but drawn your perspective.
We all need to regard ourselves in someone’s later-day without worrying about their sometime. Everyone needs to find themselves some concern and a woman’s body count or anyone at that matter is not it.
By Lornna CL, Published 10/04/2021 07:46 EAT
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